My sister went through an ugly divorce years ago. Her bastard ex-husband really took advantage of her and to get out, she let him. I relayed the story to my husband and ranted about what I would have done to that dirty little rat.
My husband looked at me and said, "We will never get a divorce. If we ever decide to part, I'll just stick a knife in my heart, it will be less painful."
Most people will not mess with me.